RDS: Clear up some confusing code in send_remove_from_sock

The previous code was correct, but made the assumption that
if r_notifier was non-NULL then either r_recverr or r_notify
was true. Valid, but fragile. Changed to explicitly check
r_recverr (shows up in greps for recverr now, too.)

Signed-off-by: Andy Grover <andy.grover@oracle.com>