perf report: Filter to parent set by default

Make it easier to use parent filtering - default to a filtered
output. Also add the parent column so that we get collapsing but
dont display it by default.

add --no-exclude-other to override this.

Cc: Peter Zijlstra <a.p.zijlstra@chello.nl>
Cc: Mike Galbraith <efault@gmx.de>
Cc: Paul Mackerras <paulus@samba.org>
Cc: Arnaldo Carvalho de Melo <acme@redhat.com>
LKML-Reference: <new-submission>
Signed-off-by: Ingo Molnar <mingo@elte.hu>