udp: use atomic_inc_not_zero_hint

UDP sockets refcount is usually 2, unless an incoming frame is going to
be queued in receive or backlog queue.

Using atomic_inc_not_zero_hint() permits to reduce latency, because
processor issues less memory transactions.

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <eric.dumazet@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>