[DCCP]: Update code comments for Step 2/3

Sorts out the comments for processing steps 2,3 in section 8.5 of RFC 4340.
All comments have been updated against this document, and the reference to step
2 has been made consistent throughout the files.

Signed-off-by: Gerrit Renker <gerrit@erg.abdn.ac.uk>
Signed-off-by: Arnaldo Carvalho de Melo <acme@mandriva.com>