[DLM] Make sock_sem into a mutex

Now that there can be multiple dlm_recv threads running we need to prevent two
recvs running for the same connection - it's unlikely but it can happen and it
causes message corruption.

Signed-Off-By: Patrick Caulfield <pcaulfie@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Steven Whitehouse <swhiteho@redhat.com>